Beating People Up.. Do you Desire that after an ill experiernce?

[Somamech]

Beating People Up is not a good idea as it leads to tension.  And far as I am concerned Tension create's Paranoia within socitey and then we have the modern world as it is today.

It's very hard for me to say this but at time's when I am confronted with someone threatning my life, I want to kick their arse or end their life when the scenario occurs (IN REAL LIFE) where I just walk away.

It's hard at time's like tonight where a Guy is walking around the carpark whilst asking everyone he come's upon for money, and in my case where I waved a hand up slightly to indicate I don't have any money he then release's a diatribe upon me about waving my hand and how "He will knock my Block Off next Time".  I have exlcluded the other profanitys this guy said whilst I walked on my journey through the car park to arrive home to the Mystic Yeti Lounge

One very true fact is that he will not Knock my "Block Off/Head" anytime.. as this Guy is insane to even state as much.   

I guess the Crux of this post is more about helping people...  If I turned around to fight this guy them who is better off ?

WIthout training in a fighting scenario I guess HE would be...

But I am Dearly sick of people speaking like that to other people, and was enranged when I arrived home to tell my wife about the story....

I am not sure whether my wife appreciatied my thoughts of breaking all of his limb's and sending this guy to Hospital IF I was a good fighter, but this is how I feel when people become so screwed up in their manner to treat other people. 


Its not hard to be nice whilst begging for money.  I have been homeless before.... but I never begged for cash so maybe I missed the whole Paranoic theme ONE percent of exbihit???


I am posting this because if i had the talent i would have busted every limb in that guy's body if I had the talent to do so, and I would feel no remorse in doing so when taking him to hospital.

Alas I don't have that skill... but man I am sick of people treating people like crap when in my case I stick up for these very people who also go out of their way to beat the living crap out of you.

The Sad thing is that I encountered this asshole right after having a very jolly chat with a guy who had bought a new electric bike.  He said he got 5 day's worth of travel out of his bike... He was so happy to chat with me as he caught me having a good look at his bike.  AND he wanted to chat about it!

Then asswipe come upon me.... 

I am proud to walk away EVERYTIME...  but part of me want's to Break Arm's and Leg's. 

My Question is how many other people feel That infuration from time to time in real life threating scenario's???

Do you also feel like upset ?

[burntheships]

Soma,

I have encountered this type of a verbal accousting
before, in not having money to give to someone,
and also not willing to sell something for nothing.

It is natural to feel angry when someone
verbally assails you for no fault of your own.

You did the right thing of course by walking away...
and also while the man said these things too you,
dont let it be personal. He probably does this to
many people often.

[The Matrix Traveller]

Yes old friend, you did the right thing and walk away...

It takes more courage to walk away than fight !

unfortunately ALL the "Opposites" exist in this World (Program) which has to be the way it is...

So we should be as a "Traveller" or "Passer By" and just pass through this difficult program.


NOT all Worlds are like this, (Earth) in fact the Earth program, is the only one of its kind.


Is Mountain biking in other worlds too ? You bet ... And more extreme than here on Earth.   

[sky otter]

Soma

you did good.. really good in not smashing him..

wish i had some sage words to help but i don't..




i do think the world is coming to some kind of parting because there is less and less tolerance in so many things..not just this type

i'm staying in my cave for now..got a nice fire and watching the snow come down

[robomont]

Even though im not a religitard.i call this demon jumping.it jumped from him to you to your wife.a little residue was placed here on pegasus.no biggy.the bug didnt stick and it helped you out .all is well in the world.
Oh and hopefully the wifie wasnt infected as well.
Or it could be referenced as karma.only you know the truth.

[Norval]

No, I don't desire to beat people up after an ill experience.

Well, Soma, I doubt I would have done what you did. There are ways to deal with such people and those situations. But the way you handled it afterwards made it even worse. But then someone else arleady mentioned that.

Would I want that person for a "neighbor"? I doubt it unless he learned some respect for others and a nicer way to "panhandle". I came across a guy once that had a stick with a piece of string tied off the end of it and he was pretending to fish. His little sign said "Fishing for BEER." Honesty and his smile got him bucks.

But your attitude about beating this guy up, and wishing that you knew how and could, is even worse. Breaking all his bones, , tsk tsk tsk. That's way overboard.
Just a bitch slap and telling him to get some respect for people may have done the guy allot more good than breaking all his bones. Just a thought. Some instructions and teachings are learned only by violence and physical altercations.

At a younger age I was fully capable of teaching someone not to threaten me physically, now I require a little "helper", if I have to teach someone some manners. 

[PLAYSWITHMACHINES]

Beating People Up is not a good idea as it leads to tension.  And far as I am concerned Tension create's Paranoia within socitey and then we have the modern world as it is today.

OK, let me tell you something;

When I was little, everybody beat me up.

When i was middle-sized, i could beat up anyone smaller than me, but i still got beat up by the bigger guys.....

When i got bigger (around 17) i realised that i could beat up all the smaller guys, both physically AND mentally

Should i hold that course?      NO!

WHY?    because i soon realised i needed the little guy's help, and without being his freind, i would lose that support.

I soon learned the lesson of 'giving and taking'....i learned one of the hard lessons of life.
And that is, look after the little guys, because there are a lot more of them than you think, and they can actually help you...

ETA: if i see someone physically abusing another human or even an animal, i will calmly walk over to them and beat the carp out of them, because i believe that is RIGHT.
And that's the way it is, don't cross me

[zorgon]

There are ways to deal with such people and those situations.

[Norval]

Even though im not a religitard.i call this demon jumping.

Religitard, , , I am still chuckeling over that one, , thanky.

Now about demon jumping, , , , , good call there too.

Gold for yah.

[Amaterasu]

Maybe it's a man thing.  The testosterone poisoning, Y'know.

I NEVER really want to hit anyOne (though I may SAY I do just venting frustration).  Heck.  I don't hit the walls as I have seen some men do when They want to hit People.

[shrug]

[zorgon]

Maybe it's a man thing. 

True... women's weapon of choice is POISON

[ArMaP]

Maybe it's a man thing.

Maybe.

I remember seeing two aggressions made by adults, in one case it was a man that slapped another man, the other case was a woman that fired a shotgun at her husband's stomach.

Regarding the situation in the opening post, I don't know how I would react, as that as never happened to me in the last 40 years, only when I was in school.

[Sinny]

I fantasize quite a lot about smacking various peeps up their faces.

However it's much better to play the mental game and beat them at that level everytime.

After a few mental excersises, you can become capable of not getting mad, and you can then learn to laugh in the face of all things negative.

I've found laghing at others when their angry is just as satisfying as a jab/round punch to the face.

[Elvis Hendrix]

ALWAYS walk away unless there is absolutley no choice.
things can easily turn against you, no matter who you are and what you know.

[Abracadabra]

Hi,

  You have done the right thing Somamech,bravo, because in these days hummmmmmm

I hate these kind of agressions under any form.

I was at the elemantary school 4 rd grade and a guy from 5th( in the late 60's ) grade was always
harcelling some others very often the same one during recreation time.

Once he was over his victim laughing making the ''victim'' crying and humiliating and
always in an hidden area you see the picture, anyway, I was watching it and suddenly
it was enough for me ( at this moment I didn't think about the reaction from the  guy, I was too young for that)
and said.......... Hey ! why you don't try with me  he is too small for you, his reaction was just let the ''victim'' away
and his face was red of shame and a lot in the court was waiting for something but period.

Some twenty years later at a wedding party the''victim'' approach me with a drink and a smile
and said '' you know I will never forgot the once you defend me at school,it was a nightmare
each time I was going to school because of him, thank you, you're my friend''

Do I will have in these days the same reaction NOT AT ALL too much psychopaths and ...etc etc
Unfortunetaly the agressors take his own life after (80's) by suicide.    God rest his soul

Peace